In Hollywood, you can easily find the most publically visible couple who are both gay and glad of their union. And after all, 50 states legalized gay marriage in 2015, and more women have stepped forward to talk about their spouses and partners in the spotlight.
It’s wonderful when long-married couples like Lily Tomlin and her wife Jane Wagner look back on 50 years of shared history and reflect on how much they’ve grown as individuals and as a marriage. Even a 32-year age difference doesn’t seem to matter in Holland Taylor’s or Sarah Paulson’s love life. All these celebs say love is love, and they want to share their families with the world in the hopes that it would help the next generation of LGBTQ+ realize that their own hopes and aspirations for love and family life may come true, too.
If you belong to the community and are currently looking for a way to enjoy dating, you can look up to your favorite celebrities for inspiration. They’ve shared their thoughts, tips, and rules about dating that you can follow and certainly change your love life.
- Make Use of Lesbian Dating Sites
Even celebrities have confirmed that nothing works better than a lesbian online hookup arranged on a specialized platform. You can socialize as much as you want; eventually, it all comes down to your comfort level. With online dating sites, there’s no pressure to make a move, putting you in a better position to find love.
Celebrities use dating platforms for all sorts of reasons. Kutcher’s foray into the world of online dating was purely professional, whereas Affleck’s was more introspective in nature. After announcing his separation from Lindsay Shookus in June 2019, he stated in October that he was utilizing a dating app. The likes of Lizzo, Sharon Stone, and Hannah Brown have also dabbled in cyberspace.
The cool thing about dating sites is that there’s something available for everyone. Whether you’re seeking a mature partner for a casual hookup or into lesbian dating, there’s a platform designed to help you find what you love. So, follow the footsteps of celebrities and find the best mate online.
- Train Yourself to See Beyond the Obvious
If you learn this skill, lesbian dating will become a breeze for you. Without this skill, you just can’t tell between a straight and a gay girl. After dating for over five years, soccer star Megan Rapinoe proposed to WNBA superstar Sue Bird in 2020. But, Bird has admitted that it all started when she felt that “special” look in Rapinoe’s eyes.
- Don’t Ignore the Gut Instinct
Whether you meet a girl through a dating site or in real life, don’t ignore what your heart tells you about that person. If you meet the right person, everything in you would scream, “there she is”. The same happened with soccer star Abby Wambach and author Glennon Doyle.
Doyle had that gut feeling about Wambach being the best companion for her. The great thing about dating sites is that you can give yourself more time to confirm if you’ve met someone special or if you should keep looking for someone else.
- Don’t Limit Your Options
While you may want to use filters on a lesbian dating site to find someone you truly desire, it’s a good idea not to restrict yourself too much. If you want to be with someone from a specific race or country, you’re going to wait longer to find a partner. So you need to expand your boundaries.
The same has been the case with actress Fiona Shaw who married a Sri Lankan economist and memoirist, Dr. Sonali Deraniyagala. On so many occasions, Shaw has mentioned that she might have married an oddball, but perhaps it would have taken an unusual person to marry her.
- Engage in Role Play
If you’ve already found your lesbian partner but want to spice it up like celebrities do, why not introduce role play to your life? Hollywood celebrities have always used this “hack” to bring some excitement to their relationships. It may be an extremely good option if you’re into mature dating and is even more exciting when you’re seeking a no-strings-kind relationship. Heidi Klum is a great example, as she has admitted how much she loves role-playing to bring out her wild side.
- Engage in Sexting
When you’re still exploring your sexuality as a lesbian girl, engaging in sexting is a great idea. There will be many chances to engage in sexually suggestive conversations when you meet someone on a dating website. Not necessarily dirty at first, but you can make it that way. Ask Martha Steward, and she’ll confirm how effective this dating hack is.
- Try Car Sex
If you’re feeling a bit adventurous like so many Hollywood celebrities, you may want to engage in car sex with your newfound lesbian partner. Many celebrities approve of this dating hack, and Scarlett Johnson has confirmed how much she enjoys it.
The bottom line is that you should not stop enjoying yourself once you realize you belong to the LGBTQ community. If you need inspiration, you can always check what your favorite celebrities have been up to with their love lives.